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This is A Praise to all that is Good and Honorable and Lovable in Men.   I feel a strong urge to share what I, me personally, am so ... very grateful for and honor in men.   I wish I could caress your heart open with my admiration and make you feel the love that I hold for your longing to join me in a heart-centered world.   So here is my, very personal experience with men, but at the same time something I’ve heard being shared and repeated by hundreds of voices of women I’ve meet throughout the years. And I encourage all women who feel so inclined to also share what touches their heart and what they feel grateful for by the masculine.   Thank you dear Masculine, for making me feel so safe…   - When you see and feel me being distressed and your reaction is to hold me tight. Letting me rant on about whatever it is that has caused the emotional storm, Holding me. Letting me cry in release, Holding me.   Keep holding me until I b...

Never Underestimate The Power Of Prayer   A poorly dressed lady with a look of defeat on her face, walked into a grocery store. She approached the owner of the st ore in a most humble manner and asked if he would let her charge a few groceries.   She softly explained that her husband was very ill and unable to work, they had seven children and they needed food. The grocer, scoffed at her and requested that she leave his store at once. Visualizing the family needs, she said: "Please, sir! I will bring you the money just as soon as I can." The Grocer told her he could not give her credit, since she did not have a charge account at his store. Standing beside the counter was a customer who overheard the conversation between the two.   The customer walked forward and told the grocer that he would stand good for whatever she needed for her family. The grocer said in a very reluctant voice, "Do you have a grocery list?"   The Lady replied, ...

Sometimes life just gets too serious, too busy and too complicated. We don't mean for it to happen, but we wake up one morning t o discover the fun has slipped away.   A few years ago a health study determined there are 3 main reasons people can't cope in life:   1. They live in the past. 2. They have a low self-esteem. 3. They can't laugh at themselves.   In fact, the study indicated that we need approximately 12 laughs a day to stay healthy!   I heard a story not long ago about a guy who sent flowers to his friend who was opening a new restaurant. When he arrived at the grand opening, he looked for his flowers. Well, when he found them, he saw that he had sent a white wreath that said, "May you rest in peace."   He panicked, of course, and called the florist who said, "Bob, I'm not worried about you because as we speak, there's a guy being buried who got a dozen roses that said, "Good luck in your new location!"...

Don’t Be Afraid - Here we are, afraid of losing what we have all the time, holding on to it so tight that not a soul can touch it. We think by hiding it from th e world, it’s hidden and it’s ours.   Nothing is. Nothing ever will be. For, nothing ever was.   If you think there is anything that you have, that’s yours, be it money, a house, a job, or a position… it’s nothing but an illusion. It’ll all disappear… in one blow.   Here we are, so insecure that we are afraid of re-starting our lives, so we just carry on trying to sort out the current mess. The thought that we should give it all up and just start all over – with nothing – might cross our minds some time, sure, but we get scared and we push away anything that scares us.   There is nothing I can ever achieve or gain that I cannot lose, in a matter of seconds. You have never gained enough to not be able to lose it all, in just a few minutes. What you think is yours, was never yours and will ...

In a relationship, having your partner withdraw at an emotional level can bring confusion, pain and frustration. Women who relate  to men that do this are often bewildered by why and how this happens. Speaking as a man, and one who considers himself sensitive and emotionally available, there are particular situations and scenarios that cause me to withdraw. And I imagine that other men, regardless of how in-tune they are with their emotional nature, would respond in similar ways. Just because a man withdraws does not mean he is withdrawing from you. First, I just wanted to express that when a man seeks solace or withdraws from a conversation, it probably has nothing to do with the beloved. It has more to do with the emotional intensity and confusion around emotions than with any particular person. It just takes men more time to integrate and understand the watery realm of emotions. And understanding emotions isn’t something that happens for us spontaneously in the midst ...