Define Yourself, Definition of Your Life !!!

A Boy proposed his Girl-friend for Marriage… Girl: Tell me..who do you love most in this world..? Boy: You, of course! Girl: what am I to you? ... Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said   “You are missing part of my heart”. She smiled, and she accepted his proposal. After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while. However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems, their life became difficult. All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to drift away deir dreams and love for each other. The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became make their relation more worst. One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house. At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, ”You don’t love me…!!!” The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, said, “May be, it was a mistake for us to be toget...

The Word love is on the tip of the tongue when some couples start a relationship, for real love a series of conditions must be met . This article shows how to differentiate real love, false love, and infatuation.   Love is an act of will, it requires two imperfect people that will dedicate to each other despite imperfections. True love is not superficial, it can recognize and acknowledge the limitations of others, aimed at building trust and dedication to special times.   There are five actions love takes -   1. Positive and reciprocal affirmations 2. Spending time together 3. Gifts, physical contact, and acts of interest 4. Trust and confidence 5. Fidelity and exclusivity   False love:   An individualistic search for your own satisfaction. Its something you search for and do for your own benefit. Often based on sexual pleasure, more than giving love.   The search for pleasure can become a chain that weighs a lot and can m...

Once upon a time all feelings and emotions went to a coastal island for a vacation. According to their nature, each was having a good time. Sudde nly, a warning of an impending storm was announced and everyone was advised to evacuate the island. The announcement caused sudden panic. All rushed to their boats. Even damaged boats were quickly repaired and commissioned for duty. Yet, Love did not wish to flee quickly. There was so much to do. But as the clouds darkened, Love realised it was time to leave. Alas, there were no boats to spare. Love looked around with hope. Just then Prosperity passed by in a luxurious boat. Love shouted, “Prosperity, could you please take me in your boat?” “No,” replied Prosperity, “my boat is full of precious possessions, gold and silver. There is no place for you.” A little later Vanity came by in a beautiful boat. Again Love shouted, “Could you help me, Vanity? I am stranded and need a lift. Please take me with you.” Vanity respond...

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"   The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."   The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders... may be there is a bigger one later.   Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.   Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.   So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.   The teacher told him, "this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person..."   "What is marriage then?" the student asked.   The teacher said,...

One disciple went to his guru and asked for an explanation on the difference between love and marriage.   The guru told the disciple : Go to the rose garden and c ome back with the tallest rose plant. One condition is that you should not come back the same path you took while going.  The disciple went to the garden and came back empty handed.   When asked why, the disciple gave his answer: As I went in, I saw a tall beautiful tree. But I kept going on for the next tree expecting a better tree. But moving forward, I came across only smaller plants and since I cannot trace the path back, I had to return empty handed.   The guru said: This is love   Then he said: now go to the sunflower garden and bring the most beautiful sunflower plant.   Now the additional condition is that once you pluck a sunflower plant, you can't pluck another.   Now the disciple goes into the garden and comes back quickly with a plant. The guru...

  A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard.  She d id not recognize them.   She said, “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.” “Is the man of the house home?” they asked. “No,” she said, “he’s out.” “Then we cannot come in,” they replied.   In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. “Go tell them I am home and invite them in!” The woman went out and invited the men in.  “We do not go into a house together,” they replied. “Why is that?” she wanted to know. One of the old men explained, “His name is Wealth,” said pointing to one of his friends, and said, pointing to another one, “He is Success, and I am Love.”   Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”   The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed....

  I believe in tough love. If you are a leader, manager, coach, teacher or parent, caring about someone often requires you to challenge and push them to improve, grow and reach their full potential.   Even the best athletes in the world have a coach to push them. But for tough love to work, love must come first.   We must love tough to bring out the best in those we lead!   If people know you care about them they will be more receptive to you pushing them. On the other hand if you put tough before love you're more likely to face resistance.   As Andy Stanley says, "Rules without relationship leads to rebellion."   The old dictator style (tough without love) of leadership no longer works. Having spent time with a number of professional and college sports teams it's clear that even athletes who seem to have it all want to know that their coach cares about them. The best coaches love their players and their players know it and play h...

Before you can grow up, you must fall in love 3 times.   Once you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever. This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more.   Once you must fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect.You will learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated as any less than you deserve.   And once you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you. This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be. And when you're through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that you needed the most.   But most of all, you learn that love is only a concept and is not something that can be defined, it is different to each person that experiences it. And you will learn to respect each and every person on this earth, know that eve...

Try to understand the meaning of love!! You love someone — that does not mean that the other should love you also. It is not a contract. Try to understand the meaning of love. You will not be able to understand the meaning of love by your so-called love affairs. Strangely enough, you will understand the meaning of love by going deep into meditation, by becoming more silent, more together, more at ease. You will start radiating certain energy. You will become loving, and you will know the beautiful qualities of love. It knows to say yes, it also knows to say no. It is not blind. But it has to come out of your meditation — only then does love have eyes; otherwise love is blind. And unless love has eyes, it is worthless. It is going to create more and more trouble for you — because two blind persons with blind expectations are not only going to double the troubles of life, they are going to multiply the troubles of life. So be silent and be alert. Be Love. And you can s...