Define Yourself, Definition of Your Life !!!

I’ve learned - that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I’ve learned - that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. I’ve learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I’ve learned - that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I’ve learned - that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts. I’ve learned - that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse. I’ve learned - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something. I’ve learned - that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do. I’ve learned - that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I’ve learned - that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. I’ve learned -

There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they would be. That’s when you have to tell yourself that things will get better.   There are times when people disappoint you and let you down.   But those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself.   There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them.   Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are.   So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be.   Because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you.   Keep Believing in Yourse

One disciple went to his guru and asked for an explanation on the difference between love and marriage.   The guru told the disciple : Go to the rose garden and c ome back with the tallest rose plant. One condition is that you should not come back the same path you took while going.  The disciple went to the garden and came back empty handed.   When asked why, the disciple gave his answer: As I went in, I saw a tall beautiful tree. But I kept going on for the next tree expecting a better tree. But moving forward, I came across only smaller plants and since I cannot trace the path back, I had to return empty handed.   The guru said: This is love   Then he said: now go to the sunflower garden and bring the most beautiful sunflower plant.   Now the additional condition is that once you pluck a sunflower plant, you can't pluck another.   Now the disciple goes into the garden and comes back quickly with a plant. The guru asks, is this the most beauti

  "Mind is the most stiff organ of the body"   A true yogi realize this stiff nature of mind and start working upon it. Working upon body is the first s tep towards spirituality. if you work sincerely upon body you can achieve require state of the body within certain months.but working upon mind requires years. just don't satisfy only with body.   'yoga is union of body mind and soul '. Our body can not connect with soul untill we work upon mind. There are the people who just work upon the body. and don't realize the great power of mind. In those people they have lot more power to do but they don't have direction. Force without direction creates more chaos. Only body oriented yoga creates stupid yogi. There are people who neglect the body and just waste their time in unnecessary intellectual discussion and philosophy. Their work becomes only information but it never converts into wisdom.They don't realize the value of body. They som

One night when the whole world was sleeping, a thief broke into the house of a washer man. The washer man was fast  asleep but the donkey and the dog were awake. The dog decided not to bark since the master did not take good care of him and wanted to teach him a lesson. The donkey got worried and said to the dog that if he doesn't bark, the donkey will have to do something himself. The dog did not change his mind and the donkey started braying loudly. Hearing the donkey bray, the thief ran away, the master woke up and started beating the donkey for braying in the middle of the night for no reason. Moral of the story: One must not engage in duties other than his own. Now take a new look at the same story. The washer man was like a typical top management corporate guy. He had the fundas of looking at the bigger picture and thinking out of the box. He was convinced that there must be some reason for the donkey to bray in the night. He wa

Once Krishna and Arjuna were walking towards a village. Arjuna was pestering Krishna, asking him why Karna should be considered a role model for all Donors (don ations) and not himself. Krishna, wanting to teach him a lesson snapped his fingers. The mountains beside the path they were walking on turned into gold. Krishna said "Arjuna, distribute these two mountains of gold among the villagers, but you must donate every last bit of gold". Arjuna went into the village, and proclaimed he was going to donate gold to every villager, and asked them to gather near the mountain. The villagers sang his praises and Arjuna walked towards the mountain with a huffed up chest. For two days and two continuous nights Arjuna shovelled gold from the mountain and donated to each villager. The mountains did not diminish in their slightest. Most villagers came back and stood in queue within minutes. After a while, Arjuna, started feeling exhausted, but not ready to let go of his ego

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. To make all your friends feel that there is something in them To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best. To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile. To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble. To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words but great deeds. To live in faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are t

Value of Project Management sessions conducted for Nokia Associates on 15th Oct @ RMZ, Perungudi and 3rd Dec @ Nokia Factory, Sriperumpudur. In this session shared the importance of Project Management practice and how this will help the professionals as life skill. Explained the different credentials which are provided by PMI. Thanks PMI India Champion - Manikandan Murugesan, Training Manager, Nokia.  

Today is Bhagavad Gita Jayanti. Which means today is the day when Bhagvad Gita was spoken by Lord Shri Krishna to his very first deciple in the form of human i.e. Arjun. Tomorrow Bhagavad Gita will complete 5151 years.  🔹Few facts of Bhagavad Gita please read : 🚩What is the Bhagavad-Gita? The Bhagavad-Gita is the eternal message of spiritual wisdom from ancient India. The word Gita means song and the word Bhagavad means God, often the Bhagavad-Gita is called the Song of God. 🚩Why is the Bhagavad-Gita called a song if it is spoken? Because its rhyming meter is so beautifully harmonic and melodious when spoken perfectly. 🚩What is the name of this rhyming meter? It is called Anustup and contains 32 syllables in each verse. 🚩Who originally spoke the Bhagavad-Gita? Lord Krishna originally spoke the Bhagavad-Gita. 🚩Where was the Bhagavad-Gita originally spoken? In India at the holy land of Kuruksetra. 🚩Why is the land of Kuruksetra so holy? Bec

Life is like a journey on a train...with its stations...with changes of routes...and with accidents.   At birth, we boarded the train and met our parents, and we believe they will always travel on our side.   However, at some station our parents will step down from the train, leaving us on this journey alone. As time goes by, other people will board the train; and they will be significant, e.g. our siblings, friends, children, and even the love of our life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go unnoticed so that we don't realize that they vacated their seats.   This train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. Success consists of having a good relationship with all passengers...requiring that we give the best of ourselves.   The mystery to everyone is: We do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. So, we must live in the best way - love, forgive, and offer the best

A father left 17 Camels as an Asset for his Three Sons. When the Father passed away, his sons opened up the will. The Will of the Father stated that the Eldest ... son should get Half of 17 Camels,  The Middle Son should be given 1/3rd of 17 Camels, Youngest Son should be given 1/9th of the 17 Camels, As it is not possible to divide 17 into half or 17 by 3 or 17 by 9, the sons started to fight with each other.   So, they decided to go to a wise man.   The wise man listened patiently about the Will. The wise man, after giving this thought, brought one camel of his own & added the same to 17. That increased the total to 18 camels. Now, he started reading the deceased father’s will.   Half of 18 = 9. So he gave 9 camels to the eldest son.   1/3rd of 18 = 6. So he gave 6 camels  to the middle son.   1/9th of 18 = 2. So he gave 2 camels  to the youngest son.   Now add this up: 9 + 6 + 2 = 17 & This leaves 1 camel, which the wise man took b

  A woman came out of her house and saw three old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard.  She d id not recognize them.   She said, “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.” “Is the man of the house home?” they asked. “No,” she said, “he’s out.” “Then we cannot come in,” they replied.   In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened. “Go tell them I am home and invite them in!” The woman went out and invited the men in.  “We do not go into a house together,” they replied. “Why is that?” she wanted to know. One of the old men explained, “His name is Wealth,” said pointing to one of his friends, and said, pointing to another one, “He is Success, and I am Love.”   Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”   The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. “How nice!” he said. “since that

சித்தர் பழமொழிகள். 1. பிறந்தன இறக்கும்; இறந்தன பிறக்கும். 2. தோன்றின மறையும்; மறைந்தன தோன்றும். 3. பெருத்தன சிறுக்கும்; சிறுத்தன பெருக்கும். ... 4. உணர்ந்தன மறக்கும்; மறந்தன உணரும். 5. புணர்ந்தன பிரியும்; பிரிந்தன புணரும். 6. உவப்பன வெறுப்பாம்; வெறுப்பன உவப்பாம் 1.பிறந்தன இறக்கும்; இறந்தன பிறக்கும் உலகம் என்பது நிலையில்லாதது. நாளுக்கு நாள் மாறிக்கொண்டே இருப்பது. அதில் வாழும் உயிர்களும் பரிணாம மாற்றத்திற்குட்பட்டு இறந்தும் பிறந்துமாய் உலகில் சம நிலையை உண்டாக்கிக்கொண்டு வரும். எந்த உயிருக்கும் நித்தியத்துவம் என்பது இல்லை. பிறக்கும் எல்லா உயிரும் ஒரு நாள் இறந்தே ஆகவேண்டும். இந்த நியதியிலிருந்து எந்த உயிரும் தப்ப முடியாது. சரி பிறந்தன இறந்துவிட்டால் அந்த உயிர் முறுப்புள்ளியாகிவிட்டதா என்றால் அதுதான் இல்லை. அப்படிப் பிறந்து இறந்த உயிர் தனது பாவ புண்ணியங்களுக்கு ஏற்ப மறுபடியும் ஜனன மெடுக்கும். இதுதான் முதற் பழமொழியின் பொருள். 2. தோன்றின மறையும்; மறைந்தன தோன்றும். உலகின் எல்லா நிகழ்ச்சிகளும் தோற்றம் மறைவு உடையவை. காலையில் தோன்றும் ஆதவன் மாலையில் மறைகிறான். அப்படியானால்

  எளிய இயற்கை வைத்தியம் - 50 மருத்துவ குறிப்புகள்  நோய் வந்துவிட்டாலே உடனே மருத்துவரிடம் ஓடுவதை விட, வீட்டிலுள்ள பொருட்களை கொண்டே எளிதாக குணப்படுத்தலாம். 1. நெஞ்ச ு சளி தேங்காய் எண்ணையில் கற்பூரம் சேர்த்து நன்கு சுடவைத்து ஆர வைத்து நெஞ்சில் தடவ சளி குணமாகும். 2. தலைவலி ஐந்தாறு துளசி இலைகளும் ஒரு சிறு துண்டு சுக்கு, 2 லவங்கம், சேர்த்து நன்கு அரைத்து நெற்றியில் பற்றாகப் போட்டால் தலைவலி குணமாகும். 3. தொண்டை கரகரப்பு சுக்கு, பால் மிளகு, திப்பிலி, ஏலரிசி ஆகியவற்றை வறுத்து பொடி செய்து தேனில் கலந்து சாப்பிட தொண்டை கரகரப்பு குணமாகும். 4. தொடர் விக்கல் நெல்லிக்காய் இடித்து சாறு பிழிந்து, தேன் சேர்த்து சாப்பிட்டால் தொடர் விக்கல் தீரும். 5. அஜீரணம் ஒரு டம்ளர் தண்ணீரில் கருவேப்பிலை, இஞ்சி, சீரகம், மூன்றையும் கொதிக்க வைத்து ஆறவைத்து வடிகட்டி குடிக்க அஜீரணம் சரியாகும். அல்லது கறிவேப்பிலை,சுக்கு,சீரகம்,ஒமம் சேர்த்து துவையல் அரைத்து சாப்பிட்டால் அஜுரணம் சரியாகும். அல்லது வெற்றிலை,4 மிளகு இவற்றை மென்று தின்றால் அஜுரணக்கோளாறு சரியாகும். சீரகத்தை நீரிலிட்டு கொதிக்க வைத்து,அந்த

கண் குறைபாடுகள், கண்ணாடி அணிவதிலிருந்து விடுதலை – அமைதியாய் ஒரு புரட்சி! என் 9 வயது குழந்தைக்கு இடது கண்ணில் பார்வை குறைபாடு இருப்பது சமீபத்தில் தான் தெரிய வந்த ... து. வலது கண்ணை கைகளால் மூடிக் கொண்டு மற்றொரு கண்ணால் 10 அடி தூரத்தில் இருக்கும் எழுத்துக்களை படிக்கவைத்துப் பார்த்த போது அவனால் படிக்கமுடியவில்லை. ஆனால் அதே இடது கண்ணை கைகளால் மூடிக் கொண்டு வலது கண்ணால் 20 அடி தூரத்தில் இருக்கும் எழுத்துக்களை படிக்க முடிகிறது.  இரண்டு கண்களாலும் பார்க்கும் போது இந்த குறைபாடு தெரியவதில்லை. ஆனால் பள்ளியிலே கரும்பலகையில் எழுதும் வரிகளைப் படிக்கும்போது சிரமப் படுகின்றனர். ஆனால் அதை அவர்கள் சொல்வதில்லை. எல்லோருக்கும் இப்படித்தான் இருக்கும் என்று நினைத்துவிடுகின்றனர். ஈரோட்டில் உள்ள மிகப் பெரிய கண் மருத்துவமணையில் பரிசோதித்த போது, நிரந்தரமாக கண்ணாடி அணியவேண்டும் என்று சொல்லிவிட்டனர். கண்ணாடியும் வாங்கி கொடுத்துவிட்டேன். அடுத்த சில நாட்களில், என்னுடைய பள்ளித் தோழர்.ஒருவரை சந்தித்தேன். பள்ளி நாட்களிலேயே பெரிய சோடாபுட்டிக் கண்ணாடி அணிந்திருந்தார். -6 என்ற அளவில் கண் பார்வைக் குறை அவருக்கு